Coming up short as Mackenzie did creates an interesting scenario. We don’t expect many to understand, but this goal does not go away with determined people. We have all traveled to many places, met local people in those places, and after hanging with them, conventionally state, “See you again”, a nice soft subtle approach with little follow through, so many times. In Dover, when the locals here one say “I will be back” as in the case of a swimmer without the completion, the locals KNOW that the person IS coming back. When one says they are going to swim from England to France, and they don’t make it, it isn’t over. We cannot explain that, let alone expect people to understand why one does this again.
We have initiated efforts to reserve a vessel for Mackenzie, mid July through mid August 2009. We know what we did wrong, and we know how to fix that. It will require less time, less pain, and include more success. I have ‘heard’ her conviction, her disappointment in herself, and a hidden drive only a few appreciate and understand. I will be aboard, but will not be an active coach. Any parent who listens to their own children, no matter the age, suggest they are ‘disappointed’ in themselves, and they want to fix that, can only be ecstatic witnessing what growing up and maturing is all about. We will spend 8-10 days acclimating to cold water in San Francisco, instead of 3 weeks. We will spend a lot less time in Dover, and she will swim at the first opportunity, instead of waiting and passing by 3 different days, of great water conditions. Talk is cheap, and easy, but words mean things. She said she will do this…so we move on towards completion.